Blog Comments

I am part of another site, that includes Blogs as part of the profile page. Many people utilize the Blogs and the 'Spotlight' them which basically means they are posted on the home page f the site for any/everyone to read them. I had clicked on one of these profiles and basically thought that person was a bit pathetic. All of her comments were sympathetic towards her even though anyone I knew who read it thought about the same thing as I did. I made a comment to said Blog which was not sympathetic and basically was all me. I checked back about 2-30 minutes later to see if there were any more comments. The user was online, I thought nothing of it but when I checked the comments mine was no longer there. She had deleted it. My main question was if you do not want people to comment on your Blog why put it in the spotlight? You are not always going to find people who agree with you. When a comment is deleted, it says alot about that person and how they are only on for gratification not real life. I did put a rebuttal Blog on my profile but the 'girl' did not comment on it, when i know she did look at it. I do not think she liked me referring to her as a Lemming.